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The Linguist

I don’t remember how old I was when my father began to teach me about the world. I only remember it as ‘something that has always been’.

Whereas other children climbed onto their father’s knee to be regaled with Alice’s adventures and other assigned age-appropriate reading material, I was given The Rise and Fall of the Human Empire – a lesson in the importance of being earnest.

He would break into his stories wherever we happened to be:
between juicy mouthfuls of apple chunks at the park;
between the press of hurrying bodies on Oxford Street;
between spelling and that night’s trigonometry homework.

And it was an epic in the telling: covering my childhood and my aging in volumes of rare beauty and poetry.

Now of course, I am older – as he is again. And though no longer fit on his knee, the narratives continue. And as I age, I begin to realise how brave he was to entrust those tales to me: to show himself as he had been; and in doing so, to build in me a spirit of adventure.

And so I offer these simple chapters in return for a lifetime of honesty. That he may know:
                that I listened and learned – even when there was no proving what it was that I learned;

                that his tales helped me live through the light and the darkness – teaching me to acknowledge the one and not to fear the other;

                that he taught me the love of words: to treasure them, and to be true in what I shared of myself in my words.
 
 
 
Dedicated to: Daddi – because you chose to be true and lived by that choice despite history and fate: thereby teaching me that I was capable of doing the same. Thank you.

 
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13 thoughts on “The Linguist

  1. A father is an essential part of growing up – to build a balanced human being.
    And yes, there are so many beautiful fathers out there – we need to hear more from them so as to make a difference in the fathers who are not taking their responsibilities seriously.

    And you speak so lovingly of your father. I guess we need to hear similar stories more often too – to make its mark on all men 🙂

    1. I agree with you, amira. We do need to hear from fathers more often. One of the sites I love to read is http://dadicusgrinch.wordpress.com/. I just like how Dadicus speaks so openly about his struggles to be the best father that he is able to be and what the experience teaches him about himself. Have a look: it’ll leave with you with a warm feeling inside and a big smile.

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